I am a wife and mother of three teenagers (14, 16, and 18). For years, this space was their nursery. When we toured the house, I saw this room and immediately had plans to make it a crafting room and/or nursery. The vision came true, but it was never fully mine or a sanctuary until recently.
If you have young children, you know that unless they are sleeping, they follow you everywhere and no space is truly yours. I’d like to say I didn’t mind that, but I think I did from time to time. During those early years, I survived and thrived in motherhood. It was everything I ever dreamed of, but also so much harder than I ever imagined. As an introvert, I don’t think I understood what it would mean to give up all personal space for a time. Because we had our children two years apart, that meant six to ten years with really little people who needed me constantly. They were little dreams come true, such sweet and loving children, and I marveled at their creativity and joy every day!
When I am done working on something, I now have drawer space next to the chair to place it in until I am ready to continue. A drawer for sewing (well two, one on either side), crochet, and watercolor. Is it always open space? No, but about 90% of the time it is and I call that great progress!
What little spaces can you create that encourage self-care, self-love, or just spark joy because they are yours? Spaces and places where you can be you. Where you always have the choice to do or just be present.

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